National Day of the Cowboy
One thing after another keeps happening in my life, and I’ve been under so much stress lately, so today I am doing something for FUN. Today, Saturday July 22, 2017, 2018 is National Day of the Cowboy. You know I’m jumping on this! Ha, so funny. Here we are two years later and I can say the same thing this year!
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I’m learned a few things since I began writing contemporary western romance. This is my take on the cowboy. Remember, MY take may not be the same as yours. Maybe I’m dealing with fiction today, but a whole lot isn’t. Let me have some fun with this. Images are from Pixabay unless otherwise stated. Tristan and Nora and Jake and Beth come from Period Images. I created the graphics. Howdy, Ma’am was designed by DuskTilDawn Designs.
Why I create cowboy heroes:
I reckon this post is for anyone who loves a cowboy. I couldn’t create something I didn’t love myself. It doesn’t matter if they’re single, married, head-over-heels in love, daddy’s, or whatever… I think they’re the sexiest men alive. That’s my opinion. I know everyone doesn’t think so. Let me have fun on this day.
We’ll start with the basics from the ground up:
Let’s put some boots on our guy’s feet. The cowboy boot fits nicely into the stirrup. They’re sturdy for whatever jobs he has to take care of during the day or night. He has more than one pair of boots. Sometimes you’ll find his boots to be dusty and worn—his favorites, but sometimes they’ll be shiny and new. Some ranchers are now wearing lace up boots for working. He’ll spill coffee on them, step in horse or cattle manure, or do a two-step on the dance floor. Hey, cowgirls… Don’t be afraid to get your hands dirty. That’s why they make soap and hand sanitizer. He’s your guy. When he’s dog-tired after a long day of hard work, feel free to pull them off for him. He’ll thank ya for it. *Wink* Remember to thank him for it, when he does the same for you. He will on occasion.
Tight jeans. Loose-fittin’ jeans. Dirty, ripped, or dress jeans… Oh, come on. Need I say more? Add a pair of chaps and my eyes will bug out.
Speaking for myself, I like an oval belt buckle holding those jeans against a firm waist. I’m torn here, for with no belt, the jeans ride lower on the waist. When he stretches to put a saddle on a horse, or bends over with a hoof pick, you might be lucky enough to get a peek at that toned abdomen and sexy back you can’t wait to run your nails over.
Oh, we can’t forget his t-shirt with the sleeves tight against bulging biceps. He’s dedicated to hard work, so of course he has bulging biceps. After giving a horse a bath, expect a little water on the shirt. Should I explain the wet t-shirt? Flannel shirts with the sleeves turned up a couple rolls and open in the front isn’t so bad either. But, wow, when your cowboy wears a dress shirt and clean jeans, hold him tight when you go out. Be prepared for a lot of ogling. Don’t be surprised if he casually looks back, but don’t worry, he’s true to you. However, he might deck another cowboy for getting a little too touchy-feely with you.
A hint of stubble on the face or clean-shaven works for me. How about you? Chances are, you’ll find a little more than a hint of stubble after a couple long, tired days. You might have to get used to a little whisker-burn now and then. Go without shaving your legs for a couple days. He’ll get the picture. 😉
Oh, ladies, when our cowboy sets his jaw in confidence or stubbornness, you know he means business. But so do we, so it evens out. His attitude or mood isn’t always going to be congenial. He has bad days too, and sometimes he can be downright miserable to be around.

Bull Rider Series 1
This man’s smile? Mmm, how about quirked lips when he questions something you said? I can tell you, my knees buckle when he shoots that dangerous grin my way. Oooh, what about his to-die-for wanton smile? You know the one where it shows in his eyes, too? The one he gives when you wonder what he’s up to next? But, goodness, when his face lights up with that special look, it TELLS you what he’s up to next. When he smiles at you in this way, you know your feet won’t be on the floor much longer. Am I right? Sigh. Who moved my fan? (I’ll use one of my own cowboys for an example–Caulder McCutchen, my bull rider.)
Our cowboy’s eyes kind of work this way, too, because he knows how to work them to portray a mood.
It doesn’t matter if those sexy kissable lips are full, soft, chapped, or sunkissed sweet. When it comes to kissing them, you know they’ll be a perfect match for yours.
Mmm, his hair. Hair and eyes are the first things I notice. For myself, his hair comes in different shades of sable from dark to light brown or a dusty blond. He wears his hair on the longer side. Who has time for a haircut? He’s too busy tending to a ranch, or herding cattle across a wide divide, or trying to stay on a bull or bronc for eight seconds. Depending on his mood, he’s comfortable wearing his hair neatly combed when the occasion arises, or wind-blown messy when he’s busy. Whichever way he chooses to wear it, it’ll end up being hat-hair by the end of the day.
Either neat and tidy or wild and free, if a shock of hair falls over his forehead, I can’t think of a more perfect excuse to get closer than to move in and brush it back. He’ll appreciate it too, if we leave our palm to rest on the side of his face. Whew!
Last but not least, let’s not forget the Stetson in off-white or black, depending on the occasion. Straw works for those hot days. Look above at Caulder. If you’re wearing a hat too, make sure you get the right tilt to your head in order to kiss him. Enjoy.
Since it is our cowboy’s special day, we’ll continue. Let’s give him a dog and a horse or two, preferably more. After his dog and horses, we’re giving this cowboy a cowgirl, or whoever he chooses to love.
When evening comes, if he’s in by then of course, he’ll be contented to settle in beside you wearing a subtle fragrance whether it’s aftershave or your favorite cologne. Cowboys are sexy, hard working men, and they aren’t always going to be smelling like they walked out of a shower. Don’t let that deter you, but a little hint won’t hurt. An offer to accompany him in the shower isn’t a bad idea. ❤ ❤ ❤
More than likely, he’ll like his favorite carryout or a meat and potato meal at the end of the day. Sometimes he’ll surprise us, and prepare a delicious meal. He’ll enjoy a shot of whiskey, brandy, or scotch, and maybe sometimes a glass of wine or a longneck. At the end of the day with our cowboy, we know, besides his family, we’re the one he holds in his heart…along with his dog and horses. Finally, when you get up Sunday morning, chances are after breakfast, y’all be going to church.
REMEMBER, this is MY take on the cowboy, and this was written for fun.
Celebrate National Day of the Cowboy the 4th Saturday of July.
Remember what they say… Save a horse, ride a… *Smile*
Thanks so much for reading and an extra special thanks if you’re reading this reblog a second time!
19 thoughts on “#AmWriting For Fun: Cowboy Heroes”
D. Wallace Peach
Great post, Mary. You got cowboy-love BAD! Ha ha. Oh, now I know why you write cowboy romances! Lol. My brother was a cowboy and you got most of it right. 🙂 This was really fun. Phew!
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Thanks! Well, goodness, I’m glad I got it right. That means a lot coming from you, Diana. Yes, this is one reason why I write cowboy romance. Thanks for commenting. ❤
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Cathy Brockman
Fun post and exactly my take on cowboys. I can’t wait to get caught up with my review list so I can get your bull riders lol
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Well, thank you, Cathy! Cheers from one cowboy fan to another. 💖
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davidprosser
What a glorious la\ugh you must have had writing this Mary J. I definitely think you should be renamed The Queen of the Cowboy Hero.
xxx Gigantic Hugs xxx
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Ohh, thanks, David! I did have fun writing it. 🙂 Unfortunately, I can’t take that title though. My favorite western romance author already has a similar title, and I’m not touching that. 💕 I love that you think so, though. 🙂
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Ed Hoornaert
I lived in BC, I was just a barbed wire fence away from a working ranch. None of the ranchers wore cowboy hats or cowboy boots, and they got around on LandRovers. I had a horse but they didn’t. Then I moved to Tucson, a big city. Cowboy hats & boots galore. All of this goes to show that the cowboys you talk about partake of a particular western culture that isn’t a prerequisite for the job.
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
That’s true, Ed. Some cowboys work in offices, etc., and do their ranching work after business hours. Yep, no prerequisite. 🙂 The hat shades their faces, boots are sturdy, and the chaps help protect their legs from some of those bushes in the desert. That’s the cowboy I write and read about. 🤠 I hope you’re having a nice weekend.
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Teagan Geneviene
Huge fun Mary! I could imagine you writing this, and grinning the whole time. Wishing you every kind of wellness, my friend. Great big hug.
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Thanks, Teagan. I did have fun writing it. I’m sure I smiled a few times, maybe laughed once or twice. This topic lets me escape for a while. Believe it or not, I have another book almost ready to go to the editor.
My brother is home from the hospital now. What next, huh? I’m glad you visited. 🙂
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Teagan Geneviene
You sound like me, waiting for the other shoe to drop. LOL, I try not to ask that question!
I’m happy to know your brother is out of the hospital. You were clearly worried about him. No doubt you still are.
Another book? You really are amazing. I hope you know that. Sunday hugs.
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
I don’t like that about myself, Teagan. You know, the “What next” part. 🤦♀️ For the most part, I try to stay positive and pray a lot. I depend on writing income, so this truly is my job. But writing takes me to another place, so all is good. I love it. 💖💕💖💕
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mihrank
wow – I felt watching a movie – this is a wonderful post…
I did like your Facebook page, If you haven’t like my page, could you please do so, here is the link:
https://www.facebook.com/Mihran.Kalaydjian.public/
Thank you!!
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Well, thanks so much, Mihran. I’ll absolutely Like your page. I must have missed it. Thanks! Oh, just checked your page. I already have Liked it. 🙂
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apuginthekitchen
Mary you make me want to move to cowboy country, a girl can dream right? Needed a cold shower after reading this. NYC cowboys, ummmm nope. Give me a man in jeans and boots tending a ranch any day over the business suited stressed out variety indigenous to NYC. Love it Mary, this was fun!!
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Cold shower, huh, Suzanne. ❤ ❤ Thanks! I'm glad you like the post. 😉 Sometimes the Professional Bull Riders come to New York. *wink* Cowboys are my weakness. Oh, is that obvious?
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apuginthekitchen
Do they really oh wow I would love to go to s show wonder if it’s at Madison Square Garden, woohoo🎉🎉
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Yes, it has been in the past, Suzanne. The 2018 schedule isn’t posted yet, that I’ve found. It’s exciting to be at a show in person. Get a good seat. 🐂 🤠
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apuginthekitchen
Oh that’s exciting will watch for tickets would love to go❤️
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