This Inspiration for the Muse post is inspirational for me, and maybe you, but not necessarily for my Muse. Maybe it is in a roundabout way especially if she smiled like I did.
It refers to what I posted on my Facebook profile the other day, so if you read it there, I’m sorry you have to see it again here, but I’ve added to what I posted. Most of you aren’t following me on Facebook though. Some of you are, but we all know, everyone doesn’t see everything we post.
This happened to me on Sunday and my brain is whirling and my heart is still proud…
Oh, yay, there is still kindness in the world or at least in my little town and area.
On Sunday, a friend and I had met for a walk. We try to walk together a couple times a week. One day a week, another friend comes with us, but this time it was only two of us.
After we walked, we went to lunch. I know, I know. Eat then walk?
We went to a local Leo’s Restaurant. She had coupons. After we received the single bill, we sorted out what we owed. I paid her my share with tax and tip included, and she laid my money with hers on the bill until we were ready to leave. We stayed to chat a little longer while I finished a cup of coffee. No dessert. 🙂
A few minutes later, the server saw the money on our bill, and she came over, saying, “Your bill has already been taken care of. Someone paid it for you. You don’t owe anything.” She had to repeat it more than twice before it sank in.
Huh? What? We were both shocked. I still am. Neither of us knew anyone in there. Thank you. THANK YOU to whoever you are in the universe! The thought alone that someone took a minute to decide to pay our bill that afternoon, warmed my heart.
Have you ever had this happen to you?
If so, then you know the warm, soft, buttery, fuzzy feeling you get inside to experience such a heartfelt gesture from a stranger. It renewed my confidence in humanity. Yes, I’ve experienced first hand, that there are kind people in the world, and I plan on paying it forward.
And you know what made this extra special to me? This came after I found a squirrel had nested in my car engine and had destroyed the soft material under the hood. From what I could see, other material in the surrounding area of the nest, like around the battery had been chewed up and left barely there.
As far as under the hood, picture a Whack-a-Mole game filled with all those holes. Can’t you see the little critter running in and out of the holes she just chewed coming up with cheeks full of blue and white insulation material? I don’t have three-thousand miles on this car.
After calling my dealer, she told me wires are probably affected and even hoses, and I’d have to go to the body shop. I thought I was facing a thousand dollar insurance deductible bill. Turns out, yesterday, I found out it isn’t as bad as expected. The service repair manager said I was lucky the squirrel went up instead of down. Thank you, dear God.
HOT TIP: He also told me to go to the store to get moth balls and knee-high nylons, and when I brought the car back in when parts arrived, he’d put the moth balls under my hood and show me how to do it twice a year–spring and fall to keep the critters away. Then someone on Facebook told me they used fabric softener sheets.
So, that’s the second good thing this week. One more reason to smile and enjoy a warm fuzzy feeling again, and another reason why I had to mention both of these happenings in my Tuesday Inspiration for the Muse post. Hugs!
9 thoughts on “Tuesday Inspiration for the Muse: Kindness Warms the Heart~Paying it Forward”
Teagan R. Geneviene
Mary, that sort of kindness is worth a second read. It’s right to celebrate kindness. That helps it spread.
What a relief that the damage to your car was less than expected! That is wonderful news!
Hugs on the wing.
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Thanks, Teagan. I still smile when I think of the random act of kindness. Concerning my car, I’m depending on the mothballs to work because I don’t want to go through this again. Yes, it was fantastic news to know I didn’t have to pay out a deductible. Ouch. I mean OUCH!!!!!!
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D. Wallace Peach
How sweet that someone paid the bill. There are still plenty of people out there who are kind, and anonymous random acts of kindness are so fun to give and receive.
Where I live, our cars are plagued by mice. Dryer sheets help and they aren’t as stinky as mothball, but mothballs work better, in my opinion, and they last nearly forever. 🙂 I’m glad that squirrel moved out!
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
I think the squirrel and/or the babies got relocated when I drove. There weren’t any signs of them living in the nest long. Today the dealership attached moth balls in Knee Highs to two places under the hood after their repair. Do the mice ever get inside your vehicle? My dealer today said squirrels try, and have been inside her car. She keeps the moth balls somewhere. But, oh, the smell. Even in the engine, I can smell them inside. Maybe a critter will too.
It’s a wonderful feeling to do soemthing nice, and unexpected, for another human being. I got such a “natural high” from being on the receiving end this time.
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D. Wallace Peach
The mice nested behind the glove compartment in the spare tire well. Stinky stinky. We use mothballs in the engine and dryer sheets in the glove compartment. 🙂
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Oh, good. I’ll put some dryer sheets inside just in case. Thanks.
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D. Wallace Peach
Good luck!
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ericjames315
Beautiful
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Mary J. McCoy-Dressel
Thank you.
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