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    • A Walk in the Park #WordlessWednesday

      Posted at 9:15 am by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on May 22, 2019

       

      #WordlessWednesday walk in the park image green trees wooded area, winding path, Mary J McCoy-Dressel, Blog Post

       

      Note: Welcome to my first post under this hashtag. I see this hashtag with all sorts of pictures posted on Twitter and blogs. I had browsed around to see if I could find the creator of Wordless Wednesday and found nothing leading back to a particular person or group, but then with one final search leading from another blog, I came across this BLOG and then this BLOG.  These two ladies could be who started #WordlessWednesday, so I’m posting their banner and linking to them. Anyone correct me if I’m wrong.  🙂  I’m not sure I’ll post each week because time gets away from me, but I’m giving it a try.

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      Thanks and enjoy!

      Posted in #AmWriting | 8 Comments | Tagged A Walk in the Park, blog, Blogging, Mary J McCoy-Dressel, Wordless Wednesday
    • Sharing Options from WordPress.com to Facebook Are Changing

      Posted at 5:32 pm by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on July 23, 2018

      From WordPress– We wanted to update you about an upcoming change Facebook is introducing to their platform, and which affects how you may share posts from your WordPress.com website to your Facebook account.

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      Hey there, fellow bloggers. I’m on a “Blog Break” right now, but I thought some of you might be interested in this if you publish your Blog Posts to your Facebook account. ~Mary

      Posted in #WritersLife | 4 Comments | Tagged Blogging, changes, facebook, Linked Posts, Publicize, wordpress
    • #AmWriting You Can’t Please Everyone: Week 14 #MFRWauthor

      Posted at 10:10 am by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on April 6, 2018
      Mary J McCoy=Dressel, Western Romance, Blog What I've learned

      Week 14:

      What I learned from my worst review.

      Sorry this is late getting out this morning. Wow, week fourteen? I act like it’s a surprise. We’re back with another Marketing For Romance Writers 52-Week Blog Challenge using the hashtag #MFRWauthor.

      Hmm, how do I choose? Hah, those words are something to laugh at if you’ve never received a bad review, and congratulations to you if you haven’t.

      I don’t want to dwell on bad reviews. They make me sick for days, and now I have to recall those feelings as the bad ones flash before my eyes. Yes, I’ve learned that you aren’t going to please every reader who picks up a book. I understand. I can’t possibly love each and every book I choose to read, either, but I do read the blurb, “Look Inside the Book” sometimes, and take a glance at reviews. Try to please everyone if you dare.

      The key is finding the readers you will please.

      Through reviews in one book, I’ve learned what readers didn’t like, for example: rambling in a book that was already too long. Fear not, dear readers. This has been taken care of and in a major way.

      In another book, I’ve learned that it has too much sex yet not enough. This can’t be fixed by anything I do unless I publish two versions.

      For this post I’m picking one review that won’t go away, but it isn’t necessarily my worst. It’s at the top though. The worst reviews are the ones that attack and insinuate stupidity and being uneducated.

      Mary J McCoy-Dressel, western romance, blog never give up

      I knew better. Honest, I did. Too late. Too bad for me:

      As I said in last weeks topic about research, I suggested triple checking, and then check a few more times before using the info in your book or whatever you’re writing for the public eye. I have no one to blame but myself. I knew better!

      Yes, I made an error. (Not for the first time in my life, either.) I’m sorry for it.

      I admit it. Ugh. 😦

      It makes me sick to my stomach to have made such a silly mistake.

      All it would’ve taken was one teeny minute to triple check a fact instead of depending on a street view thingy. Better yet, I shouldn’t have mentioned the real name of the damn town.

      Yes, I corrected it in the book after the fact, but that doesn’t matter because the review is still there for the world to see. Potential readers don’t know I learned a lesson and fixed it, or that I had beat myself up more than they ever could. On my own defense… When I handed the manuscript over to someone who lived where my error appeared, and didn’t catch that freaking, glowering, embarrassing error, (insert a 4-letter word), it added to the painful burn inside of me.

      Through this review, I also learned not to depend solely on others when my name is on the cover. It’s my job and my book. It’s my reputation. Boy, did I learn the lesson the hard way, when I knew better all along, anyway.

      Too late. Too bad.


      Y’all know the drill. This is a BLOG HOP. Feel free to visit the other participating authors. They’ll be as glad as I am that you stopped by.

      Enjoy your weekend. I can’t believe it’s already Friday.

      Posted in #AmWriting, #MFRWauthor | 11 Comments | Tagged #AmWriting, #MFRWauthor 52-Week #BlogChallenge, #WritersLife, blog hop, Blogging, mary j mccoy dressel, Never Give Up, western romance, You Can't Please Everyone: Week 14
    • #AmWriting Where’s the Inspiration?

      Posted at 8:49 am by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on October 13, 2017

      Happy Friday! The Marketing for Romance Writers bunch is back with a brand new topic. Are you ready? What is my inspiration to blog? Well, your guess is as good as mine. That’s what I thought when I began writing about this week’s topic.

      Week 41: My Blogging Inspiration (Or not.)

      I’m afraid I will fail miserably with this week’s topic. I can’t put a finger on what or who is my inspiration to blog, other than my readers. Of course, I want to be available and have a place to communicate with readers and my blog followers.

      Sometimes “inspiration” comes because I have something to say. Other times I have news about my books like cover reveals, a new release, or a snippet/excerpt. On occasion I’ll mention a contest. Other times you’ll meet a guest. And last but not least, I’m inspired by others when I follow along in a blog hop like #MFRWauthor.

      I’m not good at sticking to a set day to blog. This becomes apparent when I’m beginning or ending a book, and then when I prepare to launch a new release, like recently. This time, I’m preparing for two launches. Last year, I came up with topics to help me blog more often:

      • Short Snippet Saturday
      • Tuesday Inspiration for the Muse
      • Meet Our Heroines (This is more like a mini-series since I can’t post a new heroine each week or month.)

      Mary J McCoy-Dressel, western romance

      This year the Marketing for Romance Writers 52-Week Blog Challenge Blog Hop came into being. You know I don’t write a post for #MFRWauthor each week. I’m okay if I don’t write a post.

      Well… Some of you are laughing because I skip days weeks in blogging. “Where is my inspiration then?” you might ask. Well, my muses aren’t feeling the inspiration. Instead, they’re heads are filled with novel writing ideas, and they’re pounding it into my head until it releases through my fingers on the keyboard. My lady muse has a split personality with a male who takes her place at times. Is this why I enjoy writing hero-focused romance? They’re both bossy, but their lariats don’t scare me.

      Wesetern Romance, Mary J McCoy-Dressel

      While writing this, I learned something… In truth, my blogging inspiration comes from YOU. I see you post on a regular basis. It inspires me when you blog consistency. I look forward to your posts. I look forward to your blogs. And, I look forward to your comments and Likes on my barely-breathing blog. There you go. I found my inspiration for blogging. Maybe I didn’t fail miserably. Hah!

      I’m curious to see what inspires the other participating authors to blog. Blog hop with me to THEIR PAGES.

      Weekends are a bit like rainbows; they look good from a distance but disappear when you get up close to them. ~John Shirley

      Enjoy your weekend.

      I’ll be a little busy today, but I’ll hop over to your blogs later. Thanks for visiting.

      Posted in #AmWriting, #MFRWauthor, 52-week blog challenge | 28 Comments | Tagged #MFRWauthor, #WritersLife, 52-week blog challenge, blog, blog hop, Blogging, full-length novel, inspiration, Marketing for Romance Writers, Mary J McCoy-Dressel, Romance, western romance
    • Ask the blogger: how did you get so many followers?

      Posted at 11:54 am by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on September 7, 2017

      Mary J McCoy-Dressel Books, Western romanceBlogger Milly Schmidt says she “went out on a limb” to contact some of her blogging idols… Check out Milly’s post to see how many took the time to answer her question:

      “How the hell did you get so many followers?”

      Way to go, Milly!

      Source: Ask the blogger: how did you get so many followers?

      Posted in #AmWriting, #WritersLife | 6 Comments | Tagged author, blogger, Blogging, writer
    • Reblog: Thirteen Things I’ve Done With NaNoWriMo in Two Days

      Posted at 8:34 am by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on November 3, 2011

      This is a Reblog from one of my previous NaNoWriMo years. My second day of NaNo happened to fall on a Thursday and I needed a Thursday Thirteen Meme for that day. If you’re new to NaNoWriMo, take a look, because you’ll probably find yourself doing the same thing, although I must admit, 10k words in two days might be a little rare. You have to get a jump on it when you can. Here goes–

      When you’re writing 50,000 words in 30 days, forget the rules of writing. You’ll kick yourself in the rear for it when it comes to editing in December, but it’s all part of it. For the 30 days of working on your Nano novel, just WRITE.

      1. Wrote a lot of Words so far using as few contractions as possible

      2. Created many paragraphs 🙂

      3. Shame on me for using too many adjectives

      4. Yikes, lots of adverbs

      5. Misspelled words

      6. Drank a lot of Coffee

      7. Deleted  a few words, sentences . . . (Shhh, don’t tell)

      8. Wrote run-on sentences

      9. Challenged myself to sprints

      10. Wrote almost 10,000 words in less than 3 days (Will be over 10,000 by tonight)

      11. Stayed in jammies most of the first day

      12. Created a dilemma for myself and the characters

      13. Used a lot of strikethroughs instead of deleting

      NOTE: I can see my editor cringing right now if she reads this.


      Update: Well, here it is, October 2015 and it’s time to update this post. First off, I no longer do what that above lists suggest. Nope, not anymore. Of course the above list follows the rules. Each year I participated, brought new experiences, and I’ve learned a lot since then. This new post link might help even more–  https://maryjdresselbooks.com/2014/10/21/my-nanowrimo-experience-has-evolved-2/
      ”thursday-13″

      Thursday Thirteen

      1. First list item starts here…

      Get the Thursday Thirteen code here!The purpose of the meme is to get to know everyone who participates a little bit better every Thursday. Visiting fellow Thirteeners is encouraged! If you participate, leave the link to your Thirteen in others’ comments. It’s easy, and fun!

      Trackbacks, pings, comment links accepted!

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      Posted in Uncategorized | 8 Comments | Tagged adverbs, ajectives, Blogging, characters, coffee, literary abandon, nanowrimo, run-on sentences, Thursday 13, write
    • Can I Write Without the Internet?

      Posted at 12:18 am by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on August 24, 2009


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      No Internet!  ACKKKKKK!  It’s horrible not being able to get online.  I typed into Word because I had to be at my keyboard doing something!  It’s so boring here without it.  Yesterday, I didn’t know I would get up today and be without an internet connection.  I woke up, had coffee, and then reached for my laptop.  All I really wanted to do was write in my journal written in Word.  Then I noticed there was no internet connection.  No big deal at the moment because I wasn’t doing anything online.

      All I wanted to do was write, but I couldn’t remember the password to my journal.  I don’t usually keep passwords, but on this one I do, and I hadn’t checked into it for a few weeks.  It took forever for me to remember it.  This, I found, is caused from stress.  It affects how you think.  Stress steals your memory.

      I’m okay without being on the Internet as long as I can write.  But, I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m addicted to my laptop, and sometimes the Internet.  I think because the TV is always on to something I don’t want to watch.  (Other people in the house are watching.) I don’t mind watching the news, and I like to stay informed, but when they repeat the same thing over and over, it gets to you.  Know what I mean?  And a person can only watch so many Judge Judy’s!

      Not long after I started writing this blog that day, I had to make the call to the Internet provider. I have an experimental WiFi service, and I guess it’s cheap enough not to complain.  When it works, it’s great!  And it does work most of the time.  When I called them, it only took a short time for them to check the radio box on the telephone pole down the street, and then they detected my nanostation.  Is that all confusing?  Its okay, if you don’t have WiFi, I guess you don’t have to worry about it.

      After they told me they saw my computer on a radio at another pole, I told them the first pole was the closest to my house.  They said it wasn’t.  I live here–I should know which pole I’m closer to.  Anyway, they fixed me up and I was happy!

      I discovered that even though I can write without being on the Internet, I can’t write without doing research.  Therefore, a writer needs the Internet to work, all the time.  I can choose to use it if I want, or I can choose to not click on Internet Explorer.  I admit, when I do make that click, and I see my homepage load, it’s not hard to get distracted.  There are too many things to choose to do.  I’m an adult. I should be able to discipline myself to write or to play.  This was one of those times.  I wrote this whole blog post without clicking on IE.  I noticed one problem, though.  I use Outlook for my email, and I did have to stop and read my email during this writing.  I’m disciplined, but I’m also tempted by my cyber-world.

      Until the next time….

      Posted in #AmWriting | 1 Comment | Tagged Blogging, Internet, internet explorer, jounal, laptop, mary j dressel, online, Word
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