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    • Cotton Diapers and a Limestone Quarry #FathersDay

      Posted at 11:25 am by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on June 16, 2019
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      This morning while searching for a special Father’s Day quote to post to social media, I came across a cute one. If you follow me on Facebook, you’ll see the same one there. Sorry for the repeat.

      The following instructional quote won’t pertain to most fathers of the present day though some moms may still use *cotton diapers. Many of you will remember diapering your babies with cloth diapers. Where did you get your instructions?  🙂  Enjoy the quote, Dads. It might help if you’re into baseball! 🙂 Happy Father’s Day.  ❤

      Spread the diaper in the position of the diamond with you at bat. Then fold second base down to home and set the baby on the pitcher’s mound. Put first base and third together, bring up home plate and pin the three together. Of course, in case of rain, you gotta call the game and start all over again. ~Jimmy Piersal, on how to diaper a baby, 1968


      I lost my dad when my boys were teens. A favorite memory from my youth was going to work with him on some weekends. We lived in Detroit at the time. He was a heavy equipment operator and truck driver. He’d take me in the bull dozer with him on a half day of work. I remember sitting there so excited in the huge piece of machinery, amazed at how he operated it.

      I loved everything about being with him on those weekends. However, I’d be terrified while he pushed load after load of whatever it was he pushed, over the edge into a humungous limestone quarry. I knew we were going over the edge! After work, we’d stop at a bar for lunch. I was too young to know where it was, but he knew all the guys there.

      Later, his company moved their facility from Detroit to the Sibley Quarry in Trenton, Michigan where it remains to this day as an inactive limestone quarry. The link has an interesting tidbit about “Arm & Hammer” Baking Soda.

      I know it’s hard to pick only one, but you’re welcome to share with us a favorite memory of your dad.


      *DISCLAIMER: This is not an affiliate link nor do I have an affiliation with these diapers.

      Image from Pixabay. Made into a graphic by yours truly.

      Posted in #WritersLife | 5 Comments | Tagged #WritersLife, Cotton Diapers and a Limestone Quarry, diapering your baby instructions, family, fathers day, Happy Father's Day, Out of the past, quote
    • #AmWriting: Delayed, Current, & New: What’s Ahead? #WritersLife

      Posted at 11:58 am by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on June 17, 2018
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      Howdy. Happy Father’s Day to all you dads out there. I posted the quote below on Facebook this morning. I chose it because it says so much and is fitting for today:

       

      “It is not flesh and blood but the heart which makes us fathers and sons.” ~Johann Schiller

       

      Mary J McCoy-Dressel, western romance author, Blog post Father's Day and Updates

      Moving on:

      I’ve recently been asked if I still have plans for my Double Dutch Ranch Series matriarch to get her own story. For newcomers, Judy Carlson is the mom to Jase, Tristan, Dane, and a few other cowboys she’s taken under her wing. She says, “I call them all my boys.” She’s specifically referring to Randy Drake from Lassoing the Last Dance and Wade Emory in my upcoming book. These friends have both lost their parents, but she treats their friends like family.

      Unfortunately for them, this means she wouldn’t hesitate in making them toss money into her cussin’ jar if the need arises, which it does. Judy doesn’t care if they’re three or thirty-something—they will be donating to the grandkids college fund even if they are a grandchild donating, hence, the three-year-old. I won’t tell you which of her sons he belongs to. You probably think it’s Jase, but it isn’t.

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      Well, I’m an author with books published. Some of you are readers of my books who like to know what I’m working on. After being asked the question about Judy, I figured by now it was time for an update on my author life.

      Yes, Judy’s book should’ve been my second book out this year, but when I took two months to revise Cowboy Boss and his Destiny, it dipped into my writing time, shoving Judy’s story back into my document folder and delaying my current WIP. (The story never stops working in my head, though.) Hers will be the first out in 2019.

      It was hard enough to finish book three in the spin off series while stressing over researching and working on GDPR compliance. Good news! I did finish Wade’s book, but I’m still revising. Believe it or not, I think it has a title, and not one from my original list I mentioned a few posts back.

      Oh, Secrets!

      I’ve probably mentioned a secret project. Well, I’m about nine-thousand words into it. I’m not allowed to talk about the collaboration yet. This will be a standalone book. (So far.) This time I got smart though and gave my hero three brothers and a sister and my heroine siblings, just in case. Know what I mean? Their siblings might make friends with my muse, and we all know what that means, but goodness, am I ready to write another series? I shudder thinking about it. On the other hand, I’m excited about the prospect.

      I haven’t published a standalone so I’m curious as to how it will go over with my current readers. Everything about this one is brand-new with a new setting and characters you’ve never heard of before. My small town will have a fictitious name. This second chance romance has a title. Wow. Of course, it has cowboys.  ❤

      What’s Next for a Retiring Cowboy?:

      ***Bull Rider Series SPOILER*** (New to the series? Scroll down slowly to avoid the next paragraph.)

       


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      Another thing. I’ve been asked again about adding to my Bull Rider Series. The third book wrapped up Velia and Caulder’s story with no doubts about their future and Caulder’s upcoming retirement, but now readers want to see that future.


       

       

      Start Back Here:

      What am I to do when readers ask for another Bull Rider Series book? Book Three, Christmas at Love Mary J McCoy-Dressel, Western RomanceHouse: A Bittersweet Interlude, didn’t go over as well as I’d hoped, albeit, it does sell copies all year. This makes me leery of writing a fourth book.

      I’m sure only Bull Rider Series fans read the third book. It isn’t a standalone series, and to appreciate the characters and stories, it should be followed in order, so that’s an investment in the series.

       

      However, there are no cliffhanger endings in any of my books, so if a reader choses to read only one, they will have a complete story in itself.

       

      Starting a new series and adding to Velia and Caulder’s story leaves me with decisions I don’t have answers to yet. The more bull riding I watch, the more I want to continue the series. Don’t be surprised if you come across another bull or bronc rider or two in upcoming books.


      GDPR:

      A quick note about the EU General Data Protection Regulation (GDPR) since I brought it up above. After sending out a re-opt-in campaign written by my cowboys, and then we sent a reminder, some subscribers didn’t re-opt-in by updating and approving the new Marketing Permissions on my Mailing List. I had to unsubscribe these subscribers after May 25th.  😪

      Stats: What I thought was fantastic is that most of those I had manually added to my mailing list via a list-building event or who had been brought over from my old website, all re-opted-in.  ❤  Thank you!

      What surprised me was some subscribers who opened each and every newsletter year after year, didn’t.

      Some subscribers opted-in only to Email meaning I can’t send them book updates. Others opted-in to Email and Tailored Book Updates, so they will receive book news. Ideally, both tick boxes would be ticked. Sound confusing? Yes, it is. Thankfully, MailChimp allows me to segment these subscribers into two separate lists.

      I know I could’ve done this a different way instead of sending to all my list, but this is the way I chose to handle my list and GDPR.

      Finally:

      That’s enough blabber for a Sunday morning. If you were interested in reading about my author updates, thanks for coming all the way to the end!  😊

      Again… HAPPY FATHER’S DAY, guys, and everyone who is in the role of being a father.

      Cheers to you!  🍼

      I can’t help but think of my own dad today who has been gone many years. To those of you who can, give your dad a big hug or at least a phone call today. Sending you hugs, Dad.

       

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      Posted in #AmWriting, #WritersLife | 4 Comments | Tagged bronc riding, Bull Riding, Contemporary western novels, cowboys, fathers day, Mary J McCoy-Dressel, Northern Arizona, romance writing news, romantic fiction, Route 66, second chance love story, Updates
    • Dad’s Curfew: Happy Father’s Day 2012

      Posted at 3:20 pm by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on June 17, 2012


      Being the only daughter in my family, I did get away with a lot with my dad, but he was definitely strict when it came to certain things. When I got my first car my curfew was “dark”. He allowed me to drive to my job each morning. It was clear from the beginning I was not to use my car for running around with friends.

      Huh? I was a teenager. This is what teens do when they’re old enough to drive.

      No, not me, for I had to be home at dark. I was 17 years old. Most nights I didn’t think about coming home at dark. I had “wheels” and they spun. My dad made me pay though. One morning I went out to leave for work and my car wouldn’t start. I knew he had something to do with it. I called the lady I babysat for and she came to get me. When she was in the military she was a mechanic—How lucky for me! She took a look at my car and knew right away the rotor in the distributor was missing. Hmm, how the heck did that happen?

      Grrr… Dad!

      She offered to  put a new one on for me, but I knew better. I still remember the words I said to my dad when he came home from work that night. Picture me, who used to be daddy’s little girl, saying, “I want the rotor back in my car! Go put the rotor back in my car.” Yes, demanding he go right out there and put it back. I can also remember the look on his face when he realized I knew what he took out of my car motor. I think he was both shocked and proud that I figured it out. I saw that smug smile. Did he run right out there and put it back? NO! It took him a whole week to prove he was the boss.

      Did I do what I was supposed to do with my car from that point on? What do you think? What would you have done?

      I most certainly did not do what he wanted, but something changed soon after that episode and he eased up on the rules a little. We both learned a lesson. Dad wanted to protect his “little” girl, and I wanted to prove I wasn’t a “little” girl. That was a long time ago, but between dads and daughters, it’s still the same. They want to be the boss and protect us until we’re thirty-five years old. From the time we’re about ten we want to prove we’re not little girls. Such is life, huh.

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    • “Can’t Broke the Wagon Down,” said my dad.

      Posted at 12:45 am by Mary J. McCoy-Dressel, on June 19, 2011

      When I was a child, my dad never allowed me to say “can’t” or to believe I couldn’t do something. If I said, “I can’t do it” he would remind me I can do anything I choose to do. I guess he was right, but it made me angry. I’m not even sure what it means. Maybe it means “can’t” is a burden and carries a heavy load.

      My first book was dedicated to him. He never got to see it published, but he knew I had written a complete novel. As a kid, every summer when I was out of school, he made me write daily. It didn’t matter what it was, but I had to sit down and write something. (My brother too.) It didn’t stop at writing though, for he also made me do math problems. Yuck. I don’t like math to this day. Could it be my dad had a small glimpse into the future, knowing one day I’d be a writer? Did he somehow know that I’d always write through the summer, and now when I’m out of work, I write novels instead of short little writings?

      My dad didn’t like when I thought I couldn’t do something and he spent a lot of time trying to make me realize I could. In fact, he must have said it so much that I caught myself saying it to a student when I worked. I sure got a strange look from him. I explained to the student that he could do anything he chose to do. Dad would be proud!

      Little things through life bring back different memories of Dad. Some weren’t good. Of course, we butted heads in my teen years. I know dad wanted me to do more, and had expected more from me instead of running out with my boyfriend, or getting behind the wheel of my first car and drive, drive, drive.  One day he took a part out of my car before he went to work so it wouldn’t start. It was a punishment. When he came home from work I asked him to put the rotor back in my car. He was surprised I knew what part he had removed. He hid a smile. But again, he’s the one who had taught me to figure things out and believe I could do whatever I chose to do. Well, that day I chose to find out what part he had removed. He put it back . . . a week later.

      Maybe it was his teaching that gave me the attitude that I can be strong when I have to be, and I can do what I think I can’t do. My strength has been proven over and over. When dad got sick I never thought I could take care of him the way I did. My brother helped, I’m not trying to cut him out of this. He was strong through it too. I never thought I could load a syringe with medicine and inject it into him per Hospice directions. I never thought I could sit on the floor beside his bed as his breathing came to an end. And in the very end, I never thought I could lay my head on his chest and listen to his last heart beat. Thanks to him and his preaching to me when I was a child, I’ve been able to do a lot more than I ever thought I would. I’ve learned not to give up on things I believe in, and not to say can’t, because “can’t” breaks wagons down.

      Happy Father’s Day, Dad. I miss you.

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